Forgiveness is a tricky concept. In IC, my counselor explains it as "letting go of perceived debts", which makes a lot of sense to me. Right now though, I can't seem to forgive my STBXW and I can't seem to forgive myself. I'm still so angry with her for leaving and moreso angry with myself for making her feel like she had to leave.
My question to you folks is: What are your ideas about forgiveness where DB is concerned? Have you been able to forgive yourself for your own missteps? Have you been able to forgive your WAS's? If so, how have you done it? Any tips?
Last edited by lnlyshp; 05/28/1504:59 AM.
Me 23, Her 21 1S 2 M <1yr, T 7 WAW: She moved out 11/15/2014 She started D process 1/29/15
