Thanks for the qoute, it does open an important door.
However, I think for right now I am too far away from that point... *sigh*. Sex has become such a painful issue in my head that I actually would like to talk about my childhood, or whatever else might help. That may sound funny, but what I mean is, I have things going on that keep me from wanting sex, and I want a professional opinion on those things. I want to find answers that my husband and me couldn't find on our own, and resolve them - then I will be able to move on and build my own sexuality (which, actually, was nonexistent before I met my husband), and then I will learn what it is that I want sexually.
My biggest concern at the moment is to do something to get over this unhappiness that we are both feeling. Knock down the obstacles one by one.
Thanks again for your praise - it means a lot to me.
