Can it be another round?

[BrightFuture]

First, thanks to everyone for the comments. Bea, Mighty, Job, Dejavu! You guys are great! I cannot even think what I would do without you!

Bea, you are so right about my friends not having any idea what is going on with me or H. Sometimes they make the comments which I thing very hurtful to me, but they have no idea. Plus, it looks like H doesn’t talk to them anymore. So, they just make their own assumptions about the stuff.

Mighty, Job, you are so right about people not having any idea what it’s like to walk in my shoes. I think my friends are still great people who are trying to help in the way they know.

Dejavu, this is exactly what fell into – my friends’ opinion. I realize now that their opinion might not reflect the reality.

Anyway, here is some update. I had a happy hour at my company today, so bear with me, as I assume there will be some bad grammar coming…
Like I mentioned before, this past weekend at the vacation home was great. My (mutual) friends wanted to do a b-day dinner for me (my b-day is coming in a few days), and they ended up inviting a few people to it. So, they asked if we could do it at my (H’s) condo. There were about 14 people. My other GF came too, and brought 4 friends with her. I knew 3 of them before. I also had my neighbors from where I live (who came with me) and there were a few more people who I knew. My (mutual) friends cooked a great dinner. We had a great night!

Next day I went for a dinner with my neighbors, then went to my GF’s house for a party. We ended up going to the beach and do some fireworks.

We also were at the pool in the afternoon. The weird part was that that crazy woman, H’s friend, came to say hi to me and my GF. She gave me a hug. WTF? Still not sure what she is trying to do… Drive me away… Or, be my friend…

And then I went to my friends’ house for dinner… And that’s where this stupid stuff happened. I mean the conversation about H, etc. It think part of my problem was that my male friend told that there was a condo on sale. It was for like 1/3 of the price that we paid for our (H’s) condo. I was so tempted… I want the place on my own. I don’t want to see H’s stuff in the condo when I come, the pictures of his relatives, etc. But, I don’t have money to invest into a condo over there. So, I was so conflicted… All kinds of stuff went through my mind… Like, why I’m even in this position now? I had a good life and great dreams about the future, and H destroyed all of that… So… this was my down moment…


I’m OK now. I came home and I decided that I can use the condo for as long as H is OK with it. I don’t have to invest any money in it. He is paying the bill, and I can use it. If it changes, then I can deal with it then.

So, here goes the weirdest part… One of my friends (who is also friends with H on the Favebook) posted a video of my B-day celebration at the condo. My friends had a cake for me, but forgot the candles. My other GF brought up some sparkles, so we had the sparkles on the cake.

Before that video, I’ve got an e-mail from H. He sent me a company file, saying that he fixed his computer. In the P.S. he said this: “saw a couple photos from “vacation home”, looks like everyone was having a good time.” He definitely refers to pics on the Facebook.

So, back to that video from the condo with the b-day cake, the sparkles on it and everybody singing “Happy B-day” to me… H posted a comment on that video: “Holy [censored], were you guys trying to burn my house down!”, and then some more… Was he jealous that we had a great time in “his” condo? Or, just trying to claim it as his own? I thought it was strange that he even identified himself on FB.

Like I said, I had a happy hour at my work, so I came home in a great mood, LOL. So, I posted on that video: “Never had fireworks on my b-day cake! It was Awesome!”, and put a smiley face at the end. Well, it didn’t take long for H to respond: “Good for you, looked scary on video.” WOW!!! He communicated with my on FB! Got scarred about “his house” burning, LOL!

I will reply to his post shortly. Just can’t decide if I want to be funny, or sarcastic, or nice….