STBX did something really nice for me today and it made me feel sad and hurt all over again.

I had my six month review yesterday and I got knocked for taking too much personal time. I can't control it almost at all (and have taken what steps I can to mitigate it) so it's all going to be docked against my leave. Since I have no leave left my pay will be docked. This is so depressing. I'm never absent for frivolous reasons, except once I went to a funeral.

House has been showing well and the kids have been cooperative so that's good.

I'm sorry I haven't been around more but there's nothing to say and I'm feeling so tapped, I have little to offer. We all struggle and I do care. But I think I'm at my limit.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.