I posted a video of my son on FB and my Ex SIL messaged me
First message from his SIL in Years she says- So nice to see the children growing up so well despite the absence of their father ( her brother) She went on to say she was sorry XH couldn't be their for His kids and he was not able to turn his life around . and he had a rough upbringing.
first message I got regarding ex in a few years
I thanked her and I did not ask anything about him Just said I too wish him the best..end of story
But I felt closure she apologized for XH It brought me peace I continue to let go obviously my XH is not done yet..
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow