without that interaction or go between its difficult to know exactly where he is at - equally even if you did it wouldn't necessarily be that reliable as people present an image of what they want to convey
Originally Posted By: gan
Best of all I feel more able to accept those parts of me that I didn’t always like - it’s a package deal and while I can and do try to work on my weaknesses, I also accept that they come along with many of the things that I appreciate about myself.
I just highlighted this because it seems really healthy. some of the traits that cause difficulties in one area of our life are the same traits that allow us to excel in others, we just need to learn to tailor our approach to the circumstances
in terms of 'actively dating' how does that represent a change for you, as you're an ISTJ I assume that means a particular change in your (probably very rational) approach to things?
as for the asterix - well theres a danger there that if i'm wrong then your colleague gets a very strange email
hope you have a good day
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
