Originally Posted By: Kembo05
its been 105 days since I found out about the A and it says once D is filed its a minimum of 90 days with children involved.

She is acting on 100% emotion right now. Dang, I wish I would have ordered the DB book sooner.

I know things were improving and she admitted it too. Any setback we have she just has to run further and further away. We had a setback 3 weeks ago and that is when she contacted the attorney to just get info, we have a setback yesterday and that pushes her to meet with attorney and then file for D

Dude. We have a saying here in Scotland. Chillax (chill and relax). Big scary statements like D and filing are put in front of us for a reason, and it ain't the reason you think. Stay with the plan. Do what the experts here say. Just two weeks ago my WW was spewing on my face about D and selling up. Now? Nada. I've spent a long time today thinking about detaching and what that means. These threads hold the secrete. We can do this.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.