From what I've seen on here, D either happens very quickly or it ends up being dragged out a long time. In my state its a 6 month waiting period after its been filed with small children. W tried to get the paperwork started in Jan, then things fell through and I think shes just let it go for now. Even if the D is finalized it doesn't mean things are done, you decide when that happens. Don't let that piece of paper change what your doing now.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
