Also, anyone worry about the mental health if their spouse? My W says she us thinking Crystal clear but her actions tell me otherwise.
I think about W's mental health all the time. In my case she is still having major issues from a miscarriage in Dec, so even thought she plays it off like everything is going great for her I know better. She mostly has a good attitude around me until things really get her down and she cant hide it, but I know from intel how much pain shes going through.
They can hide that pain/depression from us just as well as we can from them, sometimes. My W has even told me the decision to D me was the easiest decision shes ever made in her life, but again, I know better.
At the end of the day it doesn't matter much, we cant fix them, they have to fix themselves. As hard as it is we cant really help them right now, other than leading by example and taking care of ourselves.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
