Hi Sunny, I haven't posted for a while, but I do read your updates, and I think you are doing so well. Your sitch has some similarities to mine in terms of timescale and the stage things are at.

It's good to read that you have limited interest in what H is up to - only in parenting stuff - and that you are experimenting with what works best rather than just getting frustrated and blaming him or yourself.

Good for you with the great GAL activities. I'm keeping pretty busy just now and it helps for sure.

Take care, Toots xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus