Those emotions will get you every time. It's those very emotions that overwhelmed you that could get out of hand with OM, so be very careful.
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His dad agreed that he needed to see me face to face. I kind of want to do this. Anyone have thoughts on this? I know it doesn't change anything but for some reason I want to look him in the eye and make him look me in mine. I don't have specific intentions, but I just want to tell him he needs to move on and tell him his actions are going to be part of a destruction of a family. He is only 21 so I know he is young and immature. Just curious to what you all think about this. His dad said he would take him somewhere public where the 2 of us can talk face to face.
You may want to get Starsky's opinion about meeting with OM.
If you are expecting to approach the guy with the hope he is going to do the respectable/honorable thing and step away.....I think you may need to consider a different thought, but IDK. I mean this guy is getting what he wants out of the deal now (sex with a M woman....which is a "no-no", and therefore, makes it even more exciting). So, don't put much into his integrity. However, at 21, he may not be ready to take on a ready-made family. If he thought that she was getting ideas about marriage to him, that might scare him more than you. Get my drift?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
