So, I just got a shower and had more thoughts. This is actually her 3rd marriage. Her 2nd one from what she'd told me was very abusive. But it's her 1st one that I'm thinking about now.
She has never said much about it...I think it was pretty short, and at the time she was in the service, or shortly thereafter.
She is very active with social media and recently told me that she'd reconnected with him. She told me that he was married & had kids...just as she. She also said that her mother was the reason that marriage had broken up. Her mother does need help.
I noticed her journal one day recently and happened to see that it said something to the effect that he said they needed to be careful with their emotions.
So, am I crazy for suspecting that this may be an big factor in what's happening? I know only his 1st name...have no idea where he lives, tho suspect somewhere out east.
