first post; my story

[Kembo05]

Well I saw the guy my wife had been having an A with when I was out running errands and I just couldn't stand it so I followed him to his house. It ended up being his brother and the guy was in the house. I didn't go there with violent or aggressive intentions, I simply wanted to talk with this guy and tell him he needs to move on and that I'm trying to fight for my family. I hope most people on here can understand that. I didn't plan on doing this or have those intentions, but when I saw his truck and what I thought was him at the time I just got overwhelmed by my emotions.

Well long story short the guys dad came out instead and he was very hostile at first but once he saw I wasn't there to cause problems we had a short convo and he was very ashamed of his son and very apologetic. He didn't feel comfortable letting his son come outside, but I told him if his son is going to run around and act like a man he needs to answer to a man and he needs to look me in my face and his dad agreed. I left and went home to tell my W because I didn't want her to find out through him. She was surprised but somewhat understanding of why I did it. She wasn't happy my 2 year old daughter was with me and after she really thought about it she threw a fit about this. She accused me of being selfish and putting what I wanted ahead of my daughters. I told her I could understand that but I knew it wasn't going to turn violent or if the situation would have escalated I would have left.

I can understand her frustration, but it wasn't a situation that was out of hand and my daughter was in the truck the whole time. I know she isn't logical right now but it sure is tough biting my lip when she is accusing me of being selfish and putting my needs ahead of my daughters when I have been fighting for my family this whole time. She put her needs ahead of everyones when she decided to be unfaithful. In a perfect world my daughter wouldn't have been with me, but I would never put my daughter in harms way, and I didn't know how the situation would turn out, but I knew how it wouldn't turn out and that was any acts of violence or some situation where I put myself or my daughter in danger.

She left the house last night and came back home around midnight. She was still obviously upset this morning and I am sure we won't have much conversation when I get home