It's so much worse than this.
It has taken me months to tell his mom most of the story. He wanted to cheat on me numerous times during our whole marriage.
He has even til me part of him wanting a divorce may be because he wants to date but then he jumped into the relationship with her and they're already saying I love you to each other. He has been hateful to me since a weeks before he left.
Like more hateful than he has ever been. He wants nothing to do with me and all I have been doing since last year is try to keep my marriage and family together.

This girlfriend of his is not a good person.
And they're still blowing money even to this day.
Like I said he left me some money and i guess he thought it would last forever BC if it wasn't for both of our parents paying my bills that money would have been gone by now.

He even borrowed $160 from me *before I found out about her* and he hasn't given me a dime of it back.
He thinks I should have gotten a job when he left bc he has til me he is not responsible for me,only for his kids. His girlfriend even makes comments to them for me to hear trying to tell me what to do with that money he left me and how to raise my kids when she didn't even raise her own. I'm trying to live right and the are being idiots.

Well my lawyer is going after child & spousal support and custody with him having visitation.that spousal support really ticked him off.
Wait until we he in court and go after final spousal support BC of that proof I have of the adultery.
People that work with them say she gives off bad vibes and he is losing a lot of weight while she is gaining. He even begged her to try on a swimsuit for him and she said no.
It makes me sick.
The problems me and him had were fixable.
After he left by some miracle I got out of my depressed funk.
I'm thinking it may have been gor the best that he left and may have been the wake up call I needed to change things. Just hoping that they D break up once she can't blow all of his checks anymore but I doubt he would come back or that I would want him back with the way he is.

Last edited by Cadet; 05/27/15 01:53 PM. Reason: Carriage returns for readability
Me-30 H/STBX-32
Daughters-10,7,18 months
M-9 years T-11 years
A few BD's since 2011
H left-March 16,2015
H came back-June 6,2015
Kicked husband out BC he was still seeing OW-June 26,2015