I don't have much to add for your sitch right now bar sending continued positive thoughts and wishes and I hope they keep you topped up in this difficult time as you have so many things to tackle.
As to H you should do what you've so elegantly put before, stand for V, when you've faced and beaten (and you will) the current issues assemble the life you want and are happy with, BFT/WFT/Woof included and go from there, go dancing, go skydiving, go .... be V.
If you stand for H and M then do it because V wants to and if not then be the V you want to be and seek out a special someone if you want to be in a relationship, they will be lucky to find you.
Take it as easy as you can V, be kind to yourself and take care.
(((((Vanilla)))))
Edz and BFT
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
