Mirror Mirror on the wall....

[Lifes Twists]

Luke,

The reconnection process is as challenging and maybe more so than the MLC. My ex has started very recently to reconnect. It is a process that feels like you are trying to get across a pond jumping from lily pad to lily pad. Full of hazards and fraught with frustration. I am trying to approach it like I am going to push a peanut up a mountain with my nose. Its going to take lots of effort, long hours and a will to not give up. There will be setbacks but it can be accomplished.

You are doing great! Give her encouragement when she needs it. Try not to give her specifics about herself just a broader approach and philosophy. Be her beacon of hope but don't carry her.