We are over, now what?

[Tulo]

Hi

I have no idea what he thinks about the keys but if it were me I probably wouldn't give it a second thought.

Ok, I was just thinking that it would be something that he might be thinking about, but you could be right and it's not a concern at the moment.. Hope you are right!

[Huddy]

Keys would be the last hing on my mind. As LBS's we are always trying to guess if W/H is thinking about us. I bet they do it, just as much as we do, so a key isn't really doing any harm being kept.

He's got to make the effort, otherwise he can just sit back and let you do all the begging.

[Tulo]

Keys would be the last hing on my mind. As LBS's we are always trying to guess if W/H is thinking about us. I bet they do it, just as much as we do, so a key isn't really doing any harm being kept.

He's got to make the effort, otherwise he can just sit back and let you do all the begging.

Ok, I do hope that you are right and this won't be an issue for awhile.. I'll leave it for now and let the key stay put.
Thanks for your thoughts!

[NDY]

There is also a tendency for the LBS to over analyse everything. Given the title of the thread this doesn't fit with the detachment mantra.

OK, just realised I'm on the wrong thread RE detacement, but the point still stands.

[Tulo]

There is also a tendency for the LBS to over analyse everything. Given the title of the thread this doesn't fit with the detachment mantra.

Haha, here I know you are right.. Without a doubt!
Analyse.r.us (actually -me- but r.us sounds better)..

Have to stop doing that! All the little things that I think mean this, that and the other is just probably nothing to him.. And I'm just hurting myself as I read to much into things.

Thanks again!

[Cadet]

Tulo

Have you ever tried to eat an elephant?

Do you know how to do that?

One bite at a time.

I know it seems overwhelming and more than you can possibly do.

However take a few bites.

You can eat the whole thing, just not all at once.

((((((((HUGS)))))))))

[Smothy]

There is also a tendency for the LBS to over analyse everything. Given the title of the thread this doesn't fit with the detachment mantra.

Haha, here I know you are right.. Without a doubt!
Analyse.r.us (actually -me- but r.us sounds better)..

Have to stop doing that! All the little things that I think mean this, that and the other is just probably nothing to him.. And I'm just hurting myself as I read to much into things.

Thanks again!

Me too, Tulo,me too. I have been thinking about the way my H signed his email today.....Hx

[Tulo]

Thanks for your input Cadet, I appreciate to hear from you.

I understand the taking it slow references, unfortunately it's not something that comes easy for me.. So maybe I'm slow but did you mean this with taking it slow in reference to the key - thing? Or in general?

I have decided to be quiet and let him contact me but I'm just not sure if this could be a gesture that he could take a as "she's moving on" (not holding on) or in a more negative way..

I just received my DB book nr 2 today and have it beside me in the car as I drive. Can't wait to come home and read it again.. A

Any thoughts from you dear Cadet is very welcome!

[Tulo]

Forgot the ((((Cadet))))

[Tulo]

Hahaha, I know what you mean dear Smothy! All to well! I'm trying to relax, breath and just wait to see what happens.. Nothing that comes easy to me..

Hugs!