So here is my new thread. About 4 weeks ago my h came to me and told me he wants to come back home. We had some very private and heart felt talks. He's still with the ow. He says things are complicated and doesn't know how to brake it off with her. Well what about me. Why am I coming in 2nd place. I have forgotten how to act in the last 4 weeks. I'm so emotional. I'm walking around like a chicken without a head. I'm fighting to get him back but my strategy isn't working. I need a new strategy and quick. He's been coming home once or twice a week now. I love him and want this m to work out. PLEASE Help Me WITH Suggestion ideas, advice. Anything. I have been gal. Going out with my friends to dinner. Taking kids places. Rearranging the house. I'm trying to detach but I can't.