Well, it's......frustrating. My only real frustration with him is when I ask him something related to D12's schedule or maybe a house issue and he just won't answer. For a while I was trying to keep contact down to a minimum and so I'd save up things to ask him and do it all in one big giant text or email. And then he'd sort of answer the first thing and ignore the other 4. So I stopped doing that, I break it down into bits for him, and that seems to work better, even if I do contact him more days. I don't feel any differently when I do talk to him or don't so the smaller bits seems to work better.
Today I had lunch with a friend whose M I've always admired, I thought they were the perfect match. Not so much. I feel like she's about to be a WAW. I had no idea. Which goes back to what my IC said once, that when some of my friends find out about S, they might be jealous or envious. I couldn't imagine, but seeing my friend's pain, I can see that.
Jim, I'm rather thrilled that paddleboarding has become a viable GAL for me. I'm also going to be doing some kayaking and may enter a few mud runs. I welcome all to accompany me in those activities!