Just an update. I know its been a while but i got wrapped up in my new life and didn't get back around to posting until now.
I thank everyone for their advice and help, especially when I was at my lowest point back in January. I'm not sure what would have happened if i hadn't found this forum. I was totally alone and had no idea how to get out of my hole.
Anyway, it's a few months later now, the divorce was amicable and it's final now. I met an awesome woman last month that blows my mind on a daily basis. It's hard to regret anything I did in the past since that path I chose led me to this woman. I just wanted to offer up encouragement to other people going through the same things as I did. The light at the end of the tunnel is out there, either by fixing your relationship or accepting the end and moving on.
M:39 W:35 Married: 12 years Together: 16 years No kids D bomb: 1/17/15 Filed 1/29/15 Moving out 2/2015