I am relieved for your kids. Frankly your two youngest going out to WW and not knowing where they are for five weeks would scare and worry me. Please seek further advice on this.
Sincerely you are the more stable parent, and you have grown enormously through your sitch and by DBing.
I am glad that you are detached in this way and working for the best solution. I really understand why D21 is upset too.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW