Just catching up with you. Get a second opinion with a different L sweetheart so that you know and can judge the reality.
Even if this is correct have an L you like and can work with, one you trust. it's ok to keep interviewing, not so you get an opinion you like, but so you are truly clear on your Fins and custody issues.
Keep posting.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW