Zelda - hang me up to dry

[Zephyr]

I am excited for you that you have been having positive time...really I am, makes me smile actually!!!!

used to complain that I was an unhappy person and he couldn't make he happy (like that was his job?!).

I would bet there are a ton of guys here who have used those words...I can't make her happy, myself included. We thought it was our jobs. We now know better.

But to the point, I felt like $hit for a very long time trying to please my wife. I couldn't. It drove me to a sorrowful place knowing that I was not man enough to make her happy. It was almost too much to bare. Wish I knew then...what we know now.