Great advice and I really appreciate everyone taking the time to reply. Thanks for the suggestion to reread Sandi's WW threads. I will do that tonight for sure!

Journaling:
I just dropped off the kids with STBX. I had on a new outfit and I was looking sharp, but appropriate. I kept the immediate conversations about the kids and told her a story about D4 from school. STBX did make a comment that she tried to call me earlier. I told her that I must have missed it when I was out with S1. I'm not sure she was convinced by that answer but, oh well, fake it till you make it. Before I could think, I asked if everything was alright (I know! It's second nature) and she said yeah. I played with D4 for a few minutes and then said my goodbyes. STBX walked to the door to let me out. She wished me a good day back to work tomorrow. I said thanks, smiled, and wished her a good time with the kids.

That was it. I didn't want to linger like I was looking for her breadcrumbs or something.

Because STBX mentioned the missed phone call, my hunch is she will call me later to talk about whatever it was she wanted to talk about this morning. Should I go fairly dark until Friday, my next night with the kids?

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15