haha, I knew what you meant. Thanks again for the clarification. I can now see the importance of the 180's and detachment. The 180s aren't so tough but the detachment sure is.

Has anyone read "Love must be tough" by James Dobson? Some of the concepts are pretty similar and he talks about spouses being wayward

Me: 32 Her: 29
M: 5 T: 11
D2
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me)
W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15
Papers served 6-3-15
Temporary Order 7-15-15
W Moved out 7-17-15