For those of you following my original post, thank you for the advice. I have a few specific questions that I think will help with staying on the DB track. Admittedly, I have been having difficulty staying focused mainly because WW is all over the board, and is coming to me with things I'm not expecting.
First, she is an EA with a co-worker. He's on her "team" at work, and they are working together on a huge project. She just started her job 4 months ago. She can't ask to be moved without telling her boss why. She claims that she can't call it off with OM because of the project and her fear it will make the project uncomfortable. As ridiculous as I think this is, I in a way understand her justification. The project is supposedly over end of July. At that time OM is transferring departments and they will not we working together on a daily basis. He will still be in the same building though, so this is a separate issue for another time.
My wife has asked me to tolerate this until the end of July. This has been my response. "I will not give you permission to have a boyfriend until the end of July. You know where I stand. It needs to end NOW." "I cannot give you a timeline of when this will become something I can no longer tolerate. It could be tomorrow, or 2 weeks from now."
Is there a suggested response that you all can give me to this question?
Keep in mind that we both agree that her ending A will not fix our M. But it is the necessary first step.
