DJ - honestly who knows? My children are all adult now and two of them are married. My xh has seriously upset their wives, and when I told him this, quite gently, he didn't argue.
It is practice, and detachment in the name of sanity that has got me here. I wouldn't have done it without a huge amount of support from some wonderful people on these boards. Many of them no longer post, but Job still does for which I know many of us are truly grateful
The strength of some of the newer posters, and their insight is amazing. I do not know what I would have done without this place.
