Wonka, I do frequent this open work space area here in town that's pretty awesome for people like us. It's the hours till the place opens that are tough!

I am going there around 3 this afternoon, so that I can leave the house before she leaves for her "date." Do not want her to leave me here while she goes off to do this thing. Psychologically throws her off a bit when I do this sort of thing, I know.

I'm a little better now, since a friend took me to lunch... another chance to leave unannounced. She called for me when I got back, just to make sure it was me, I guess.

Tonight is going to be very hard. Another friend is meeting me for drinks, and when I come home, I will post a note on the locked bedroom door informing her that she is, for now, not welcome in our bed.

I have to go upstairs and work on the big computer now, though. Ugh.

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19