Right - so the interactions Defacto is having, how is that not his best foot forward? Because he asks about her day? That's viewed as pursuing and needs to stop while the OM is present.
I guess I understand that part of it. All of those conversations and interest in her is paused until the affair is over. Is that the gist of what you're saying?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
