Peek, I was the one in the relationship with no experience so the only problems related to that area are with me I suppose. I never once have let on though that sometimes it bothers me. Now if she has an issue with it, she's never mentioned it to me.
We've had some fight before. She has self esteem issues, body issues, anxiety issues, depression issues . . . . . sometimes all the "issues" that get thrown out there by her just make me want to scream. I can't help but think sometimes that most of it is just an attempt to find an "excuse" so that it can be something besides a problem she needs to address.
That is one area that as a man I have never ever quite been able to get my hands around. Emotional issues, for me as a man, are always something that can be overcome through a simple decision of "this isn't going to bother me anymore". But I suppose that comes from the male ability to supress emotion. For the life of me sometimes I just want to say, "enough already, get over it".
But no, there is nothing along the lines of a sex issue fight that I think has caused this problem. I honeslty think that most of our problem is that she's in pain, she doesn't feel good, the meds bopped her libido and since she doesn't feel she needs it she has no interest in making any special effort to address the fact that I still do. To a certain extent I think its selfishness.
