Hey Peekablue, I wanted to comment on your post, because I think it is one of the big barriers in my R. My W has definitely copped that feminist attitude of "it's my body, and if I say 'no,' you have to respect that." It's one of the many reasons she gives me when she is rejecting my advances, but it is one of the biggies. Did your H respect your right to say no? If yes, how did he respect it? If no, how did you get past it (or have you?)?
