Well bunnikins just phoned for a long chat. Wants to know how to approach the children. I was pleasant but tough and not very helpful. His circus, his monkeys.
I have no idea why he suddenly called out of the blue. If I hadn't ended the call he would still be there talking away. He said it had been nice talking to me (aaahhhh) and when could he see my again (WTF). Which bit of 'you left me and the children nearly a decade ago and we have lives' does he not get??
Yes, it would be nice if he had a relationship with his children, but it isn't my problem, and never was.