That haircut thing would have set me off .. that and the fact that MIL and H seem to have paired up in lala land. I would imagine that tandem to be quite frustrating.
I do find myself lately maybe a little where you are, life is at peace without all the crisis crap when they are not around ... the closer they get the more I do not care for my environment to be impacted , its like building a sand castle and they come in and stomp around like a clumsy elephant, not on purpose, its just their way .. we bite our lip and go back and fix up our castle ... rinse/repeat .. it does get taxing.
