Racliced - I just want to say that I'm still around, still listening. Thanks for your thoughtful post on why you think he left. I know it's clear for others, but to me it's just confusing. I don't see much except the usual daily life. I feel immense guilt for what I've done that lead to D, but if I were you, I'd just be left confused as to why being myself, a good person, lead me where I am. Again, I guess we can't really understand the decisions of the WAS because we all have different criteria and thresholds. We have to just accept it, when just accepting that they have a right to do it unilaterally is hard enough.

Thanks also for sharing your views on the effects of D on the kids. Part of me really, really want it to be proven to be a bad thing. But that's also the part of me that thinks I can control this situation and reason WW back into the M. Another part of me tells me that this is the new normal and that, the harder it is on kids, the more involved I should be to make it successful.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.