Mighty, I have visited the website, but since we can't mention other sites here...I didn't mention it. The book is very interesting and it will make you stop and think about people you are dealing w/on a day-to-day basis.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.