Bright, Please do not allow others to get into your head and make you think you need to divorce your h. They aren't walking and living in your shoes.
I've been reading a book that I think you might find interesting and a very easy read at 143 pages.. It was recommended on another forum that I am a member of. The book is entitled "Psychopath Free" by Peace. It talks about recovering from emotionally abusive relationships w/narcissists, sociopaths and other toxic people. I highly recommend reading it.
When you are ready to file for divorce, base it on your thoughts and feelings and not on other people's opinions. This is your life and you need to live it the best way that you can. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
