DJ - I was thinking about your sitch when I read your last two posts. Do you still love your husband? Or has he exhausted your supplies of compassion and understanding with his self absorbed behaviors.
I think there are many many reasons to save marriages, [and I certainly don't believe all the 'in love' things that so many MLCers spout when they rush off with someone who is amazingly unsuited to them] but what would it take from your husband to rebuild yours? I know divorce isn't necessarily the answer, but do you actually want to wait out this crisis, assuming that your husband actually wants, and is able to do the work on himself.
My xh recognized he had, and still has, 'issues', but doesn't think they can be dealt with.
It is sad that in the words of teh Baa song, they wont take a chance on us!
