Bob, Thanks so much for the advice and encouragement. It's good to remind myself to not answer a call that I'm not prepared to answer.
GB, As usual, pure gold. I specifically like the advice to answer STBX's questions with some questions of my own. It's a strategy that I hadn't considered. I can always count on your timely support to help me on my way. And, I agree with Bob that your last paragraph was one of the most inspirational things I have read. It is unlikely that STBX and I ever reconcile, but I will reread that paragraph when I am lacking confidence.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
