NewlyWed1: Your story is identical to mine except I have been married for 22 years. Great relationship before marriage then near celibacy from the wedding night onwards. It is sadly an all too common pattern. At least you have the support from this forum and do not have children. I suggest you work really hard this year and if you can’t fix it, forget your cultural/religious/family beliefs and get out. Believe me, 20+ years of celibacy, all the time remembering those magic first few months, is crushing for the spirit of a man. SD
