So, did you go to the bbq or did you stay home and rest? Either one would have been enjoyable.

In a very nice way, you will need to advise granny that you are your son's mother and that you and your h will make decisions that will be in his best interest, not granny. Granny didn't do such a hot job the first time around and I would hate to see your son have some authority issues later on in life. Guess granny wants to try one more time to figure out why her son went off into the sunset. Oh well...I know you'll be there for son and won't allow her to interfere too much.

Well, it looks like you need to start a new thread. I think I just flipped the total to 101.

I do hope you had an enjoyable day.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.