I have question for anyone regarding anniversaries, birthdays etc., our 30th wedding anniversary is in one week, June 1st. My H dropped the bomb on June 2nd last year although I believe he was in crisis almost 2 years prior to that. Do I send a card, call or wait for him to say or do something. We've never made a huge deal about it so I'm ok playing it down. Again, he's been reaching out more in the last 3 weeks than he has all year and there seems to be a shift in the dynamics. We have spent 2 weekends together this last month and both visits went really well.

Thanks,
Sis


M: 53 H:53 M: 30 years
D:29, D 27, D 25
BD: 6/2/14
Proof of OW 7/7/14
D filed 8/14 (H)
D dropped 1/15 (H)
3/15 H reaching out
06/01/15 Proof of OW still
06/17/15 I filed