Coming Home

[mleigh4]

Job, you are spot on about Grammy acting like S is her son and not mine. This has been going on for years and has been a big tension issue between H and I, because he does nothing. She feels she only needs to go through H, and does not respect me as a partner to H and mother to my son.

I am not sure how to go about the boundaries. I guess the next time something comes up I will have a talk with her. As for H, he has never backed me on issues with her. Do I try talking to him too? I feel he should have at least texted me when they sat down S for a haircut, to let me know.

H has a strange relationship with her. They were never close, he rarely spoke with her. Since BD, they are BFF's. It may be because she tore their family apart and they get each other? She seems to justify his actions, even when I used to talk about things in the beginning with her. Like I have said before, I have always felt ganged up on by them. It's time to stand up to her, like I have learned to do with H.

I can do this, with dignity and grace

I have been invited to a bbq today, but I feel like I need to rest! I will get a steak, grill up some veggies and chillax today! Thanks Job!