Lord almighty this is a tough spot. I'm so sorry. No one is on the DB forums because things are peachy, yet this is very sad. I don't mean to make it worse, only validate that your 31 years together are so precious, even if they were volatile at times.
Hello gr8ful3,
Oh my, I can't imagine what you are going thru. My W and I have been M almost 14 years, she left me and filed for D 7 months and I am still hurting. But with the help of these wonderful people on the forum, I feel myself getting a little stronger day by day. Zues, amongst many others, have given me "golden" advice.
Try to post as much detail as you can. I know it gets tough to do as life gets in the way, but it will really help us help you.
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
