Hey Bob, thanks for checking in on me. I'm just trying to hang tough. I'm having a good time on the backside of my vacation.

It's been a little more difficult to detach as of late though. That may have something to do with both STBX and I being on vacation at the same time. Just a lot of extra free time to occupy I guess. I just need to keep telling myself that this is a marathon and to keep a PMA about everything.

Right now, I'm trying to follow some good advice and working on being more mysterious to STBX. The trick is it not coming off as forced or as me trying too hard.

Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15