I think you are better at the DB concepts than you think. If your wife is having this type of conversation then they say you should listen to her, mirror her convo so she knows you are listening and validate. This isn't one of the times to walk away.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
