W put D2 to bed last night. I went to the gym. When I came home, she apologized for the days events. She asked me about the gym and then asked me if I was really going to file D. I said "yes". I also told her we need to sit and talk details some time this week and figure out visitation, etc. so there are no repeats of what happened today.
She asked if I would give her 2 weeks before filing. I said that answering that would be giving her permission to have a boyfriend. She again talked about how she can't call it off with him due to her work project. I simply said "that's ridiculous".
She started crying and complimenting me, how good I look from working out, what a great dad I am. She never meant to hurt me. She apologized for making this be my fault at first. Then she gave me a huge hug, and cried on my shoulder for about 5 minutes. I didn't have the heart to pull away from her at that moment, so I let her cry.
This morning, she's back to being her current self. Running around huffy, acting like I'm in her way, etc. I hadn't said a word to her this morning, and she says "I have to think about this two week thing". I said "What two week thing?" She says "you told me last night that I have two weeks before you file". I said no such thing, and somehow she invented some kind of ultimatum I her head.
My guess is that she went to bed texting OM and he sweet talked her back down to earth and back to him. This is why I'm done.
I know I am failing miserably at the DB concepts, but I get so lost when she actually comes to me to talk rationally and compliments me and starts crying. How do I deal with this appropriately? I xan't just walk away from that can I? I don't want to be cruel and heartless.
