Hey guys, could use some advice.
STBX called twice this morning and I let it go to voicemail both times. The second time she left a voicemail but it was S1 saying hello to me. It brought a smile to my face.

Mind reading here but I imagine she was calling to check in and see what I was up to. I believe she will ask me what I did, where I stayed last night, and why I didn't answer the phone.

I know I could do a better job being mysterious to STBX. I don't want to lie or come off as being childish. Obviously, I didn't do anything to be ashamed of and just crashed at my buddy's house.

Suggestions appreciated.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15