1. Your H is not the man you fell in love with. He is lost and confused. Talking will not bring him back - your actions will be far more powerful than words. 2. Read and re-read the rules, thread on detaching and the LRT, and most important GAL. 3. Use this time to focus on yourself - this is challenging but an important step in the process. Set some short term goals and keep the DB book close. 4. Have no expectations and don't look for any crumbs. 5. Be patient and mysterious. Do something nice for yourself and smile.
We don't choose to ride this rollercoaster but we can decide when to get off.
Something I read every morning:
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Me42 W40 S12 D8 M:15yrs BD 3/27/15 D filed 4/27/15
