I guess I am approaching this situation in the way I would like to mend it. I don't like being in conflict or having bad feelings with others and therefore want to "fix" it. I also believe that's the way brothers and sisters in Christ are supposed to deal with issues between them. That said, others may need more space and time or just want to shove it aside and forget it. She obviously feels crowded and pressured...although I rarely contact her. I will respect that my way is not working and leave it at that. I will allow her to enjoy Sabbath in whatever way she chooses and I will do the same for myself. No biggie.