Anyway, I haven't really communicated with her since. But I'll admit it had been very flattering to have her express some interest, even if it wasn't appropriate. ... I know all of this, and it still woke up some feelings of desire I haven't had for a while. ... Now don't worry, I'm not acting on them for many reasons (she's M, I'm M, she's probably not interested now that her M is better, etc) and I never did act on them. But it was a reminder of how powerful that sense of connection can be, and how powerful that sense of attraction can be. ... Considering that she felt her M was doomed, that she'd never be happy, that she was stuck...if some guy came along and started expressing interest, waking up those feelings...I can get why she'd chase the dream.
YES. Sounds very much like my encounter with the guy on the plane. You said you were surprised I kept talking to him...that ^^^ explains it to a tee.
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H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
